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Chapter 2

January 8th, 2011 at 01:16 am

In our divorce agreement it was decided I would move out of the martial home and live elsewhere. I was given 90 days; I could stay longer but it would cost too much $$$. Nonetheless, during my pursuit of an apartment, my friend and her husband and her 12 year old son lost the rental home they were leasing. I offered to let them stay with me temporarily; thinking a week or two. This was in October 2010 and I was to leave our home Dec 26, 2010 as agreed. Everyone concerned was aware of this.
I found a great apartment and started moving our Dec. 15, 2010. But this couple did nothing; and I mean nothing...empty promices of helping with the electric bill, propane bill, cable bill. They became instant free loaders.

Now I am usually a good judge of character and I admit I didn't see this. What I see is two people taking advantage of my vunerable position. I began seeing them as takers and mouchers and you name it. Any type of discuss was met with totally ignoring my request.

Well Dec. 26, 2010 comes and they still not move out. My friend knew any min. after I would bear the cost. At 8p.m. I asked for the keys; I planned to stay until they were done and take pictures just in case we had any court issues.

My friends husband begins yelling at me the I am crazy and have no right to demand the keys and I should be put in a mental institution because I am forcing them to leave. Imagaine my surprise. Instant bullies who don't care who they dump on.

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7 Responses to “Chapter 2”

  1. NJDebbie Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 01:22 am 1294449737
    1294449737

    With friends like that, I rather have enemies! Good luck getting these people out.

  2. ccraw Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 01:32 am 1294450365
    1294450365

    How ungrateful! Can you call the sheriff for help in getting them out? I hope all turns out well for you!

  3. Petunia 100 Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 02:25 am 1294453541
    1294453541

    How awful! You certainly don't need "friends" like that.

    Divorce is hard, even when you know it is in your best interest. Be patient with yourself. In time, your life will be joyful again. Meanwhile, eliminate toxic people from your life.

    Pretty soon you will be too busy to think about anything other than taxes.

  4. sheree0123 Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 02:31 am 1294453907
    1294453907

    In reading you comments I want to say thank you very much. Thank you for listening and understanding.

  5. sheree0123 Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 02:38 am 1294454312
    1294454312

    Concerning the sheriff: I remained calm and cool on the exterior but inside I was very angry and hurt.

  6. sheree0123 Says:
    January 8th, 2011 at 02:40 am 1294454459
    1294454459

    Concerning the sheriff: I remained calm and cool on the exterior but inside I was very angry and hurt. But they left on their own accord. They spent 3 noghts in a lcoal motel. My friend, Pat, complained how they were charging them $67.00 a night. I guess it was the free motel?!
    Additionally, this is a last year tax client but not a 2010. I will never see my fee. Once burnt twice shy!

  7. Jerry Says:
    January 14th, 2011 at 04:23 pm 1295022212
    1295022212

    Wow, what a mess. I am sorry that it leads to additional stress during a time that is already stressful. Still, I guess it is important to learn about whether people are reliable and what kind of friends they are... there is never any insurance for that sort of thing.
    Jerry

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